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sarrah345
12-06-2006, 10:29 PM
Hello Everyone,

I am a newbie to this site and Dr. Allam (I see him for the first time on Dec 19th). I'm not a newbie to this subject, as I have been contemplating this surgery for years and my health is so poor now, I HAVE to have the surgery. Both my PCP and Pain Management Doctor told me I MUST have gastric bypass surgery.

I am 310 lbs and don't even recognize myself anymore. I have so many health problems and I have never been so ill in my life. I have such bad sleep apnea that my airway closes completely 68 times an hour! I just had a second sleep study last sunday with the CPAP and I was told I did great. Not only that, but my pulmonologist spoke with my neurosurgeon and he said to her that my oxygen levels during the first sleep study were in the 50s!!! It scared me to death. I was told with the CPAP my oxygen levels were in the upper 80s to low 90s. Much better. I still have to wait another week to get my own CPAP machine.

I have herniated discs in my lumbar spine and c-spine and have fibromyalgia. I still have terrible pain, even after having a surgery to correct the bulge in the lumbar spine, because of my weight and the doc told me it wouldn't get better unless I lost a massive amount of weight.

Found out yesterday that my lungs are only functioning at 60 percent, and that my lungs are squished to half their size because of my weight. The doctor used the word squished.

I have high blood pressure, acid reflux, gout, and I can't breathe very well. I can't bathe without a shower chair or else my back kills me. I had pneumonia this summer and my health has just spiraled out of control.

Tried all the diets, ad nauseum.....don't work. Now I can't do anything.....at all.

My sister in law is JeanM and she had surgery 18 months ago and I think has lost 140 lbs. She's doing so well! I've asked her a million questions, and told me all about Dr. Allam and his staff plus this website. I am so glad to be here and I see Dr. Allam soon! Not soon enough though!!!! I am SO ready for this surgery!

Since November 3, I almost killed myself by driving. I was on Valium and Percocet for the pain relief from the back surgery and that mixed with the sleep apnea......I drove to a doctor appointment and swerved all over the road, couldn't stay awake. My husband said I was slurring my words. Somehow I made it in one piece to the appointment. I don't remember the appointment, but I fought with the therapist because she didn't want me to drive home. I left anyway and called my husband at work. I had my cell headset on and drove almost all the way home the way I drove to the appointment. Swerving all over the road...couldn't stay awake. My husband told me to pull into a Hess station about a mile from our apartment and he said not to go anywhere and he picked me up, turns out he left work, panicked, and he picked me up, drove me home and called my doctor (PCP). He said to bring me to the hospital. So we went to ELIH. Was in the ER for hours and hours, had a head CT and chest x-ray and bloodwork to rule out a heart problem or tumor in my head or something. Finally at 12 am they admitted me.

Next day, I saw the doctor and he thought I was way overmedicated. I know I am. I take 15 meds and at that time, I was taking 19. They kept me overnight that Saturday and released me Sunday. Doc said no driving until I saw a neurologist (I have a seizure disorder, but have been seizure free for 15 years).

Pain doc took me off the percocet and valium right away, plus oxycontin that I have been taking for about 5 years, and he replaced it with a low mg pill so I wouldn't have opiate withdrawls.

I've been seeing doctors and having a jillion medical tests since then. Pumonary doc says no driving until after I get my CPAP machine and have been using it for at least 2 weeks. It's been really hard and I've come to the end of my rope.

Here's where one life ends and another begins for me.

Sheila was wonderful and listened to my story......and I can't wait to see Dr. Allam. I have good insurance so I hope I can get a date for surgery in the next 2 to 3 months.

So, that's my story, so far.

I would love to get e-mail from anyone who wants to talk to me or give advice. I've learned a lot here so far. Thanks for reading my long post.

Hugs,
Cathy
sarrah345@aol.com

mssfire
12-07-2006, 12:26 AM
You've made the right decision....good luck and hope to see you @ the support group meetings! We're here for you...don't ever forget that!

KIM
12-07-2006, 07:12 AM
Hi Cathy;

I used to work with your sister-in-law, Jean. She really does look wonderful!!!

I know it's not easy making the decision to go ahead with this procedure, but in my opinion, you are doing the right thing. I had mine done on 5/19/05 and I reached my goal weight within the first 10 months and have acually lost 20 lbs. more than I had hoped for!!! I had the surgery at 266 lbs. and I am not 139 lbs. It is by far the best decision I have ever made. My entire life has changed. I am more active now than I was at 18 and I just turned 40!

Good luck to you. I will send you a private e-mail with my phone number in you want to talk at all. You are in the best of hands with Dr. Allam, Nanette and Shiela.

Kim

sarrah345
12-07-2006, 01:24 PM
Hi Everyone,

I was so happy to see at least two responses to my long post about me and my story. Thank you.

Not that I need more stress on me, but, I've been trying to get Disability for the better part of this year. I finally had to hire a lawyer to help me. She calls me today, saying that none of my doctors have sent her any medical information, and that she wants me to call my doctors and sort of prod them. I have a hearing that can't be postponed and it's on the 14th, and if my lawyer doesn't get enough information, I won't have a case to present to the judge. I have a neurologist appointment with Dr. Gatewood that day at 4:30 to go over all the tests she made me get. MRI of my brain, EEG, Sleep studies. I wonder how I'm gonna juggle all that?

I can't even drive! Three of my doctors say so. No driving until after I get my CPAP machine and have been using it for 2 weeks. It's really exhausting. Not to mention my current state of health. Everything thing is a challenge and everything either causes me actual pain or exhausts me.

Oh, dear friends, I need some support. All this is really getting me down.

Hope to hear from you soon,
Hugs,
Cathy
sarrah345@aol.com

elaine
12-08-2006, 07:29 PM
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Don't let the system beat you down. You have enough on your mind right now. I know what your going through, I had my surgery 2 years ago and a year after, my husband had congestive heart failure. I just thought the walls were going to cave in.............they don't. Although it isn't easy to believe, you will get through it.

You seem to have done your homework on Gastric, and you have wound up in the right place, they don't come any better then Dr Allam..........he is the MAN. My bmi was also 51, I did not have all the health problems that you speak of, but I owned some of my own. I now live a very happy, HEALTHY life and I never regreted one day, nor did I ever question my decision. It was and is the best gift I have ever given to myself and my family.

I know you are going through some really stessfull times, but you do have a family (large one at that) of support right here..........

Good luck with your journey........... I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.........~elaine

uclorox
12-16-2006, 09:28 PM
Hi! I had my surgery almost six months ago and lost about 110 pounds. Now, I feel with my eating habits my original weight will all comeback. I eat complusively small portions all day long. I never a problem digesting anything. This surgery went off without a hitch for me. Now, I just afraid that this can't work in the long-term because, I can't use the tool properly. Help me, please. Thanks.

Bobbie
12-19-2006, 07:04 AM
Hi Cathy. My name is Bobbie and I had my surgery 3/2003. You have started on a road that will change you life for the better. I had some of your problems, and though I still take 2 pills a day, my health has tremendously improved. I know right now it seems that things are coming at you from all directions, but it will all work out. I am sending you any email and will be more than happy to talk with you in the chat room. I am up in the mornings and am going to set up a time when I will be there if anyone wants to come visit. Will get that info up on the site shortly. Hang in there, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Bobbie
12-19-2006, 07:10 AM
Hi as you can see from the previous post, my name is Bobbie and I understand where you are coming from. After my husband passed away 2 years ago, I gained 30 lbs. What you have to remember is that Dr. Allam has only given us a tool. We still must use that tool to keep ourselves on track. When you feel like eating, drink a glass of cold water, or call someone. Take up a hobby. Take some sort of class either at Michaels or JoAnns. It really makes a difference if you occupy your mind with something besides food. My phone number is listed on the site and I believe my email is too. Also, as stated earlier, I will be in the chat room every morning after 9 am and until about 1 pm. This unfortunately will not happen until after New Years. I hope to hear from you. I'll be coming back to the meeting also, and hope to get to meet you face to face. Same for you Cathy.