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Regina
09-04-2008, 09:22 AM
Five years ago, today I had my gastric bypass surgery. I can't believe that it has been that long ago already.

I have to tell you that losing the weight has been one of the best things that I ever did for myself. I don't regret for one second ever making that decision. I'm thinking if I didn't I would have been even heavier then I was back then. I might have really developed more illnesses then I had then.

Just so, you know that even though I am five years out I still experience the dumping and I might get sick sometimes. Which is both my fault because I try things that I know I shouldn't have or that I know won't agree with me. You also have to know that even though I do that occasionally I still don't regret having the surgery. I would do it again if need be in a heartbeat.

I also believe that going to our monthly support meetings have kept me going on the right track. Yes, even though I did gain a few pounds back and I know why I did I think it would have been worse if I didn't attend our meetings. By attending our monthly support meetings even a five-year veteran, I am still learning things from them. Example was when a member came back who hasn't been there in a while and gained some weight back. At that point, I realized I was not alone. I took all the information from that meeting and turned it into a positive one for me. I have lost 15 lbs of the 30 I gained. It might be coming off slow but that is fine with me.

To all the members who are from when I started out come back to our meetings. I know that some of you come here and just read the board and that is great but we need you at our support meetings to. Even if you have gained, some weight as I did just come back. Maybe someone will say something that might trigger something off to help you. Listen we are all human and we all make mistakes no one is going to judge you in our group. You know we are not like that we already no what it was like to be judge by people on our weight. So, come back. Make a promise to yourself that you will try to attend our next meeting.

To all the new members think and research what procedure is going to work for you. Don't pick the one that your friend or maybe a family member tells you to have. It is your body your life and you should make the decision on which one is best for you. Talk to Dr. Allam and Pat they will help guide you with what surgery to have. Good luck to all.


HAPPY FIVE YEARS TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v237/LRJD/cheer.gif

Debbie
09-04-2008, 09:37 AM
Congrats on your milestone. Keep up the good work!!!! You are such a great person to keep this board going and share your weightloss achievements with all of us. You are an inspiration!!!

candiekisses68
09-04-2008, 12:48 PM
xxxQ_DANC117.xxx WTG Regina you have done wonderful!!!!!! keep up the good work!!!! you should be veryyyy proud of yourself!!!!you desevre it!!!!

Sissy
09-05-2008, 05:37 AM
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Way to go!!! You're doing great!! I'm with you - WLS is one of the best things I ever did for myself!!! Congratulations - Darla

Regina
09-05-2008, 06:24 AM
Thanks everyone. I could not have done it without Dr. Allam’s help (doing the surgery) and without all of the support I have gotten over the years from all of you here and at our support group meetings. ;)

Jamie
09-05-2008, 07:38 AM
Hey Reg,

I want to say congrats, and wish you a very special thank you for all you do for the group. You are an inspiration to so many others and really keep the flame burning.

What you say helps so many others that have had this procedure for a while and are such an asset to the newer ones. I think we all know that we can come to you should we have any questions about anything. You are honest and don't try to hold any punches. People out there should listen and learn from all of us and everyone's combined stories add up to a huge testomonial to Dr. Allam, Pat and their efforts to help us have a healthier, better life for us and our families.

I am sure it doesn't seem like five years, but if you can stay as fresh and informative as you are now I am sure the friendships you get in return will help the next generation and generations to come get through many obstacles and pitfalls.

Thanks for everything,

Jamie

mssfire
09-05-2008, 11:58 PM
You go girl...you helped to keep me on my road to changing my life 5 years ago, and I know that if it wasn't for you and our support group meetings I wouldn't be where I am today--happier and healthier than I've ever been in my life! I miss you!

AnnieP68@yahoo.
09-06-2008, 05:22 AM
Dear Regina: Big congrats. I have always said you are the heart and soul of the monthly group, and you are. What a great milestone. You have always been an inspiration to me and many others. We all slip and fall but it's not how many times we fail, it's how many we get up and do something about it like going to meetings and keeping in touch with those who can help us.

The surgery is not a cure-all but a tool! we heard this from the beginning but sometimes need to be reminded. So easy to start grazing again and eating unhealthy things. See now I don't dump. Nothing will come up if I eat wrong foods. In a way that is worse. I have to deal with it: the dizziness, weakness and sweating. I suppose that is a form of dumping. But nothing ever comes up. I try to make sure I avoid that feeling because I hate it. What is the sense of feeling more within an average weight if you are always sabotoging yourself by causing your body to go into "shock"! Well we are not always rational when it comes to food, even now.

We have to keep working at it. Some harder than others. That's why we are hear for each other. I will not make Sept. meeting as the job Ihave won't allow it. I am a companion for an elderly woman who has really gotten used to me and needs me there. She is moving in Oct. so I will see you all then.

Congratulations Queen Regina!!!!

Love Annie P.

marybeth66
09-06-2008, 09:50 AM
congratulations regina,

wow 5 years, that is a long time. I am very happy for you...... I think your positive attitude is just wonderful..... Thank you for all you do

QUEEBELL
09-06-2008, 11:35 AM
Congratulations! You truley are an insperation to us all. After 5 years you continue to support all of us right out of the gate. Thank you for being so supportive to me. You really showed me tight from the start that I didn't have to stop having fun just because I couldn't eat like I used to. You ROCK!!!

Isabel

Regina
09-06-2008, 12:52 PM
No, Thank you everyone. Without all of you, I would not be where I am today. You are all the reasons I keep doing what I do for the message board and our support group. You all over the years have kept me focused.

I am glad that I can help all the new ones and the older ones that came after me. Together we help each other and that is what it is all about. We all know what it was like to walk in those shoes that we never want to walk in again. So together, we will make it over whatever obstacles we all might come upon.

I feel great and I am so glad that I have all of you part of my extended family. Even those who came before me and after me that don't come anymore you should really try to get back to our meetings and the board. Even if you have gained weight, come back its ok. Make it a point to get back on track I know the meetings and here have helped me get back on track.

Thanks, again everyone for all the kind words you have said to me. It is appreciated more then you will ever know.;)